LadyOfEros

erospainter:

on the subject of fantasies

Figuring out what kinds of fantasies you or your partner have (and ideally have in common) is a good first step, so that you can make an initial guess as to what kinds of roles might be fun to play out with each other. There are two general approaches to finding them: the “on your own” approach and the “with your partner” approach.

Of course, there’s no reason you can’t try both.